It’s only Thursday and I’ve faced so many food temptations this week. I know I can eat what I want, as long as I track it, but when I look up the smart points, it leaves me truly wondering if an item is worth it.
For example, earlier this week I fulfilled a promise to my high school freshman daughter who is studying for her first finals. She was craving Lou Malnotti’s pizza. So we ordered one. If you’re not from the Chicago area, well, just trust me when I say that Lou Malnotti’s is one of the best deep dish pizzas out there. There was no way I was eating a salad while everyone else ate my FAVORITE pizza. So, I sat with the family and ate when they were done (only because I didn’t yet know what I was going to have, otherwise I would have eaten my dinner with them).
BIG NEWS: I DIDN’T eat the pizza. That was Tuesday.
Today, we had a new business meeting in the office. When the meeting ended the leftover food was made available to the rest of us. As you can imagine, there was a beeline to the table. I took a look at what I wanted, an egg, cheese and bacon breakfast sandwich on an asiago bagel (a favorite, of course). I knew it had to be bad news. So, I took a little bowl of fresh fruit (zero points). THEN, I looked up the sandwich points. The smart points didn’t include the bagel, just the regular chiabatta bread. Point total? 16 + whatever the bagel would have been.
For me, there are some things that are worth spending the points on and things that aren’t. One piece of pizza (unplanned for the day) and a truly unnecessary breakfast sandwich aren’t worth it. I could make either one work if I wanted to, but I’d rather plan in advance, instead of eating because it’s there.
This was a huge accomplishment. It reminds me that I’m committed to my weight loss journey. It shows me I can make good decisions. I am no longer powerless to food. Not long ago, I would have eaten in both situations because I didn’t want to be “deprived” of something I wanted. I have finally turned the corner on that excuse for not being able to lose weight. I am making a healthy lifestyle change. Right now, I choose to not eat deep dish pizza or breakfast sandwiches. But, it’s my choice. It’s not that I’m not allowed, or can’t have it. I choose to make better choices — at least most of the time!
January 8, 2016 at 4:39 pm
That is a BIG corner to turn, Robin. Go, you! And thanks for reminding us we CAN take control and make conscious choices that are in our best interest.
January 8, 2016 at 4:58 pm
Lsgaitan23 it’s the hardest thing to learn. I’ve never been willing to make the hard choices before. But, I’m no longer willing to accept the results if I eat everything I want to.
January 8, 2016 at 5:52 pm
Keep up the good choices, they will make
for a great journey.
January 8, 2016 at 6:42 pm
Robin, you’ve done really well – and I understand so well how hard this is, and the power of not wanting to feel ‘deprived’. Enjoy all these little victories – every one of them.
It all comes down to planning. I’ve found lately that if I’m due to go out for a meal, it helps to check out the menu online beforehand, and decide (without the added pressure of what everyone else is choosing) what I will order.
Go girl!
January 8, 2016 at 8:06 pm
Julie, I totally agree with you. I do the same thing. Which is why these two incidences were such wins for me. Unplanned food in front of me. Horror of horrors!
January 9, 2016 at 2:39 am
You had two great NSV this week! That’s awesome. You are getting so strong! You got this.
January 9, 2016 at 4:33 pm
Please help! I don’t know what an NSV is!??!?
January 10, 2016 at 2:32 am
NSV = non-scale victory!
You walked away from pizza and a breakfast sandwich—those are both AWESOME non-scale victories!
January 10, 2016 at 3:46 am
Non Scale Victory!!! What great terminology! Tomorrow is my weigh-in day. Hopefully I will have a scale victory too! Fingers crossed!
January 10, 2016 at 4:49 am
My fingers are crossed for you! I’m sure you’ve done GREAT!
January 9, 2016 at 8:04 pm
For you now, Robin, there’s no such thing as “unplanned food”. You’re getting the idea of “worth it/not worth it” to be natural. If I could put a thumbs-up emoji here, I would! 😀
January 10, 2016 at 2:31 am
Hello—so happy to have found your blog through the grapevine of my blogging friends!
Great NSVs to celebrate this week! You are a strong and capable woman, and that shows me that you WILL make it!
I am a fellow WW’er, so I look forward to following your journey! We can do this! 2016 is going to be a great year!
January 10, 2016 at 3:43 am
Thank you so much for your comments! I am always so happy to connect with fellow WWers! We are on this journey together. We will have a great 2016! I look forward to following your journey as well!
January 14, 2016 at 5:38 pm
Happy Birthday! What a wonderful day to spend with your Mom. I love the plan for the day, that way you’ll have the “right food” handy for days that you don’t feel like cooking. I’m so happy you’ve found the true secret to any journey, that you’re life is wonderful and you want to do something for yourself because you deserve this and can do it. Enjoy the day with your Mom and keep up the good work.
April 7, 2017 at 6:23 pm
I’ve tracked my food before both with points and with a phone app called “Lose It” and it is eye opening how quickly calories add up. Also depressing. Most people underestimate how much they are eating and it is so easy to eat way beyond our energy needs. Especially with a sedentary job/lifestyle. I admire your ability to make good decisions in the face of temptation.
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April 7, 2017 at 11:18 pm
Molly, it’s frightening how fast it adds up! I used to go to Starbucks daily. Now I make my coffee at home — I can track everything that goes in it, and save money to boot! I firmly believe that’s why tracking works — it makes you accountable and aware of what you eat.